From here

After leaving the church, was anyone else completely shocked to discover that most TBM’s really don’t care about church issues?

Coming from a once completely devout and believing member, one of the biggest shocks came after I read the CES letter and tried to share what I had discovered. While I had my reservations, for the most part I expected my friends and family to be as “mind-blown” and outraged as I was. Come to find they don’t really care, and several have severed ties with me because of it.

Just absolutely crazy and cultish behavior.